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Monday, December 30, 2013

The Reasons of Fighting and Some Ways to Prevent it

Hi Readers! did you guys have a good christmas?? I hope y'all had a wonderful xmas, mine was really fun! Before the year end, I'd like to update the latest news about brawling in Jakarta,Indonesia.
so here is the news link ; http://www.beritajakarta.com/2008/en/newsview.aspx?idwil=0&id=30993

According to National commission for child protection, in 2013 there are 255 cases of fighting among students. This number increased 112 cases from last year, which is a very significant number! It is a warning for all of us..the more people engaged in a fight, the more likely our future of our youth will be ruined. They are like the reflection of the previous generations of our country. Ask ourself, can we prevent fighting among youth?

These are some reasons that usually start the fight. Small reasons that end up with big fights.
- Pride or competing for power
- Social jealousy
- Feeling mocked or ridiculed
- Forced by situation or condition
- Arrogance
- Tradition/Alumni instruction (power of individuals in the group)
- (fad) fill the free time when out together with friends

How to prevent it? Here are some ways to prevent it:
- Counselling and character building. This way is the easiest way to prevent it. It can be done by anyone. Keep telling people about the risk of fighting and do personal approach are the simple way to prevent it. Even spread the campaign through social media and make it as a trend is a simple way to do it!
- The existence of strong delegates
- Mediation: open communication between the rivals

How to tackle it?
1. Strict punishment
2. Again, counselling, character building, personal approach
3. Provide a positive space for them that take part in doing something useful instead of fighting

Friday, December 6, 2013

Supreme Court vs Student Brawl Stabber

Original source : http://www.thejakartaglobe.com/news/jakarta/supreme-court-upholds-student-brawl-stabbers-sentence/

This link website is continuance of my previous post about High School brawl in Jakarta that killed one student. As you read from the website: Appeal filed by the stabber was rejected by the Supreme Court. The stabber's lawyer said that he didn't killed the victim but he injured other students.
Bro,although you said you didn't killed him,harm other people is also one of the rule violation! *snap snap snap*
The stabber got caught

The stabber in Supreme Court tried to file an appeal


The latest news is they threw Acid when they attacked other students. Come on guys...you better play with acid in chemistry class. We should prevent this before it becomes further and they will use more advance stuff to attack people. How do I start that? It starts from us, from you who read this post. Help those who usually involved in brawling to realise. Or help yourself to get out of that "black future hole". Help our environment to stay away from brawling. How to do that? communicate! spread the words is the easiest way to do that! Say no to brawl = better culture + better future.